Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Oh Marriage Season!!!
So Last night i found out that 6 of my friends are now getting married oh good for them! I'm so stoked!!!! You know what that means, Well i don't he he. anyways my doctors appointment is tomorrow i'll keep you updated! I hope there is nothing serious!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Oh the JOY!
Mitch's back is BETTER!!!! Finally..... He has one more appointment with the chiropractor next week but then he is done. Our Settlement should start sometime soon. Mitch just has to fill out papers about what happened and who and what was damaged.... That may take awhile. Work is going okay I am beyond stressed but it's all good. I figured if I don't have a pile of Bills we are doing okay. Our bill pile is only 4 bills high. It's great. At first I thought we were going to be living on the street, but mitch sold his truck in December to his parents so now we have a little bit of money. We were saving up for a vacation that we would take in June but right now we won't be able to do anything for awhile. I made some cakes Baskin Robins and my dad bought one for my mom. It was the cutest one. I think that I can just stick with decorating and things like that to earn a little bit of money to pay the bills. Mitch applied for unemployment a couple days ago. He has a meeting with them tomorrow. I will let you know how that goes. I hope that he can get something. He is also wanting to go back to school. since he was Injured on the job, He can probably get some money to go through at least 3 semesters. That would be great. He will probably start a program at MATC to become an EMT! that would be cool but classes go from 5- 10 so i won't see him much for a couple of months. I am trying to figure out what to do. He has applied for jobs out of state but I don't want to move. I hope we don't. I have a Dr.'s appointment on thursday to figure out what to do about the problems I have been having and I hope I don't have to get surgery since we don't have insurance anymore. But I need to know Whats wrong with me. I have been in so much pain since the beginning of november but I am getting use to it. Goodness. Well that's all for now I hope this updated everyone.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Baskin Robins and Fam Update
I started working at baskin robins like three weeks ago.... I love ice cream. After three weeks, I found out that I can't scoop ice cream any longer. Not only am I completely sick of ice cream I may have to have surgery soon. More info to come. I know I know I would. It would happen to me. Well anyways enough about me, Mitchel's back is doing better. He is 80% healed he he whatever that means. I can now feel that little part of his back bone that was missing. oh great!!! Valentines day is coming up and I have no clue what to get Mitch... I was thinking a HAMMER cause he really wants this cool looking one. It's expensive though and we have NO money... Well if you have ideas let me know!
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Why Some Guys DONT'T Get 2nd Dates
I read this article online somewhere and i thought is was so funny. I will put in my notes at a later date! he he probably tomorrow... Comment back and tell me if you thing it's totally true or not..... if you think it's not just say it is cause you actually know its true let's face it.
1. Going on a rant about a former significant other.
No good can come from talking about an ex-girlfriend on a first date. Saying something positive about an ex is threatening, and saying something negative is just plain annoying. My friend Leslie agrees: “My favorite annoying first date is the guy who spent the entire time describing in detail how nasty his ex was,” she said. “By the end of the date, he had pointed out the restaurant where she threw a drink at him and the street corner where she screamed at him about his lack of sexual prowess.” The first date is about the two of you getting to know each other. Bringing the ex into the conversation makes it seem like three’s a crowd.
2. Divulging too much personal information that’s not flattering.
Take a hint from comedian Chris Rock, whose dating advice goes something like this: When you first meet someone, you’re not you. You’re the ambassador of you. In other words, this is not the time for full disclosure. I went on a first date with a guy who told me that he takes antidepressants, that he tends to be a slob, and that his family doesn’t get along. “I’d really like to see you again,” he said, “but I think I should be upfront about who I am from the beginning.” Even worse are guys who reveal unflattering personal information without even realizing that the information isn’t flattering. “My dog is my life,” a guy told my friend Sherene on their first date. “I’ve had the dog since I was a kid,” he added shamelessly. “I live with my parents.” The information was bad, but the fact that he had no idea it was bad made it horrifying. Remember: This is a date, not a therapy session.
3. Making the date feel like a job interview.
Let’s face it: A first date is a job interview (for the position of significant other). But if a woman is going to put on a cute outfit and blow-dry her hair for you, try not to make her feel like she’s in the room with the head of human resources. She’d rather have a casual conversation than be subjected to obvious probes like, “How long has it been since your last relationship?” Just as bad are guys who try to suss out key information by dropping calculating questions into the conversation. My friend Sara found it particularly irritating when a guy tried to figure out her age by asking her opinion of the 1972 Olympics and then saying, “Oh, but you couldn’t possibly remember that” in a questioning tone.
4. Having too much attitude.
Laurie, a single woman in New York, was asked on a first date what TV shows she watches. When her date learned that she didn’t like the show Seinfeld, he didn’t believe her. Then he wouldn’t let it go for the entire meal. “He just couldn’t fathom my not liking that show,” Laurie explained. “It was as if I’d just said, ‘Yes, I live my life without consuming any liquids.’” Guys, if you want a second dinner, don’t spend the first one trying to convince your date that she’s not normal.
5. Admiring other women.
Most guys know better than to stare at other women while on a first date. But it’s just as exasperating if your date asks you what you thought of the latest blockbuster hit, and your response is to go on a tear about how beautiful Angelina Jolie’s lips are. If you think the woman sitting across from you is ever going to be secure enough to kiss you after that, think again.
1. Going on a rant about a former significant other.
No good can come from talking about an ex-girlfriend on a first date. Saying something positive about an ex is threatening, and saying something negative is just plain annoying. My friend Leslie agrees: “My favorite annoying first date is the guy who spent the entire time describing in detail how nasty his ex was,” she said. “By the end of the date, he had pointed out the restaurant where she threw a drink at him and the street corner where she screamed at him about his lack of sexual prowess.” The first date is about the two of you getting to know each other. Bringing the ex into the conversation makes it seem like three’s a crowd.
2. Divulging too much personal information that’s not flattering.
Take a hint from comedian Chris Rock, whose dating advice goes something like this: When you first meet someone, you’re not you. You’re the ambassador of you. In other words, this is not the time for full disclosure. I went on a first date with a guy who told me that he takes antidepressants, that he tends to be a slob, and that his family doesn’t get along. “I’d really like to see you again,” he said, “but I think I should be upfront about who I am from the beginning.” Even worse are guys who reveal unflattering personal information without even realizing that the information isn’t flattering. “My dog is my life,” a guy told my friend Sherene on their first date. “I’ve had the dog since I was a kid,” he added shamelessly. “I live with my parents.” The information was bad, but the fact that he had no idea it was bad made it horrifying. Remember: This is a date, not a therapy session.
3. Making the date feel like a job interview.
Let’s face it: A first date is a job interview (for the position of significant other). But if a woman is going to put on a cute outfit and blow-dry her hair for you, try not to make her feel like she’s in the room with the head of human resources. She’d rather have a casual conversation than be subjected to obvious probes like, “How long has it been since your last relationship?” Just as bad are guys who try to suss out key information by dropping calculating questions into the conversation. My friend Sara found it particularly irritating when a guy tried to figure out her age by asking her opinion of the 1972 Olympics and then saying, “Oh, but you couldn’t possibly remember that” in a questioning tone.
4. Having too much attitude.
Laurie, a single woman in New York, was asked on a first date what TV shows she watches. When her date learned that she didn’t like the show Seinfeld, he didn’t believe her. Then he wouldn’t let it go for the entire meal. “He just couldn’t fathom my not liking that show,” Laurie explained. “It was as if I’d just said, ‘Yes, I live my life without consuming any liquids.’” Guys, if you want a second dinner, don’t spend the first one trying to convince your date that she’s not normal.
5. Admiring other women.
Most guys know better than to stare at other women while on a first date. But it’s just as exasperating if your date asks you what you thought of the latest blockbuster hit, and your response is to go on a tear about how beautiful Angelina Jolie’s lips are. If you think the woman sitting across from you is ever going to be secure enough to kiss you after that, think again.
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